FACTS FOR LIFE
A Canadian Students Pro-Life Paper
"Assisting and Encouraging Canadian Students in the Facts For Life"

 2004, Issue 1

 
 
PEER PRESSURE

 

INDEX 

Prayer

 

Rebels with a Cause

 

For Class Discussion

 

Enter the Essay on Life Contest

Christian Guidelines - Pro-Life Choices

Perpetual Rosary for Life

 

Peer Pressure and Pro-Life

 

St. Philomena - the Patroness of Youth


 

 

PRAYER FOR LIFE

In many high schools, students assist with opening announcements and prayers. We encourage you to say the following prayer for life in your school.

 

Dear God,

We all find things hard to believe, and our minds are filled with doubts. Is there really a God? Why do we believe in something we cannot see? God, you know that we have faith, but the world's temptations often steer us away. Guide us away from those temptations. Fill us with your Holy Spirit to help us answer our doubts, and strengthen our faith and our love for you and each other. Amen

 

 

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REBELS WITH A CAUSE
by Fr. Jim Whalen



By Fr. Jim Whalen

     

Youth are called to fight on the front lines of the Culture War that is happening in our society today. This doesn’t mean pleasing or impressing others. Choosing Life at all stages of development,at all times, will mean opposition of all kinds. It means swimming against the current of half-truths, misconceptions, and misinformation, and in some cases, outright lies. The enemy is real. One has only to flip on the TV to be inundated with deceptive standards about family living, marriage and life styles. The false flood of promiscuity, immorality, and violence predominates our screens, devaluating love, truth and life itself. It encourages and promotes irresponsibility and selfish stereotypes. What kind of future this forms is quite clear: a world of relativism, Gnosticism and eventually annihilation.

Youth are challenged to make a difference. It doesn’t mean being different just for the sake of being different. It doesn’t mean trying to be like everyone else. It means trying to please the one who really counts, our best friend, Jesus, who clearly asks us to protect and defend human life. If we do things primarily to please others, to be noticed or to be different, we have missed out on what is really essentially important. To be class president, captain of the football team, the best dancer or singer in drama class are all great accomplishments but minor in comparison with what is really important. What makes us so valuable is that we are unique in creation, one of a kind. God loves us for who we are, His sons and daughters. His gift of life should be treated with responsibility and thankfulness.

We are called to be witnesses, rebels for truth for the right reasons. “The only applause I seek is the applause of nail-scarred hands” (A quote on the walls of a Christian teen center). To seek applause and popularity from our peer group is just another way of avoiding making responsible decisions and correct choices.
The basic questions are: Am I willing to accept God’s plan for my life and the lives of others? Am I willing to do what is necessary to carry out my personal Mission, to do my part in building a Culture of Life and a Civilization of Love based on Catholic teachings and principles? Jesus calls people of all ages to come forth to carry out their mission: “Do not say, “I am only a youth”, for to all to whom I send you, you shall go, and whatever I command you, you shall speak” (Jeremiah 1:7).
We must never compromise the truth, or who we are, to win popularity. It is not worth it. To be true to ourselves, to promote and live pro-life principles requires courage. Sticking to the whole truth, to our convictions, is the way to grow in self-worth, in faith and happiness. It can be tempting at times to sacrifice almost anything to ‘have an image’ with friends. We all want to be liked and make others happy, but it must not be done at the expense of truth or respect for life or who we are. We are not being true to life or to ourselves when we reject God’s creation or God’s plans. When we accept God’s love and plans for life we discover more and more what it is to love others and to respect life.

We live God’s will through our choices. God speaks to us through all our choices and through the events in our lives. Choices are opportunities to grow and to bring more life and light to the world. We are all entrusted with a personal mission to accomplish in this world. This mission includes a call to a life of chastity, a call to real love. At times it means taking a leap of faith in regard to His plans for Life.

Life is too important to live it in a lukewarm or mediocre way. God’s awesome plan for your life means we must not settle for anything less than a life of truth, a life of meaning, a life lived to the full.

It means being ‘REBELS WITH A CAUSE’, a Mission of upholding human life with courage, standing and walking tall with our leader, Jesus Christ. We are called, like Peter to come to Jesus, “Lord, if it is You, bid me to come to You on the water”. He said: “Come. So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus” (Matthew. 14:29). +

 

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FOR CLASS DISCUSSION

 

Situation #1:
At lunch hour, Joe is sitting with a group of his friends (boys and girls). Joe says that “chastity is for losers”.

For Class Discussion: Discuss how you might react to such a statement if you were in the group.


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Situation #2:
Mary, who is fifteen years old and going to school, indicates she is pregnant. Her boyfriend, and her parents, have told her to have an abortion.

For Class Discussion: What can your class do to support Mary and her baby?

 

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ASK YOUR PARISH PRIEST,
SCHOOL PASTORAL ANIMATOR OR
CHAPLAIN TO SIT IN
ON YOUR CLASS DISCUSSIONS.

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ENTER THE
‘ESSAY ON LIFE’
CONTEST


1st Prize: $300.00 plus 1st place award
2nd Prize: $150.00 plus 2nd place award
3rd Prize: $75.00 plus 3rd place award
All entries: Precious Feet Pin


If you are a student and under the age of nineteen, here is your chance

to have your composition published in various

Priests for Life Canada publications...

and earn some spending money at the same time.



Write an essay (in English or French) on one of the Life

issues and send it to the Priests for Life ‘Essay on Life’

Contest.Your essay can be up to 1,000 words in length.

Priests for Life Canada will be the final judge

of the winners. Entries must be received by

Priests for Life Canada by March 31, 2004.

Note: Contest has been extended to June 30, 2004.


Possible topics:

ABORTION
EUTHANASIA
CONTRACEPTION
CHASTITY
REPORDUCTIVE TECHNOLOGIES
MOTHER TERESA AND PRO-LIFE
POPE JOHN PAUL II AND PRO-LIFE
etc.


Submit your essay along with your
Name, Address and Age to:
Priests for Life Canada
‘Essay on Life’ Contest
PO Box 43
Cumberland, ON K4C 1E5

 

 

 

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CHRISTIAN GUIDELINES
- PRO-LIFE CHOICES -


  1. 1. Choose Life - This choice is advocated in Scripture. (Word of Life).

  2. 2. Spread the Gospel of Life - This choice will help build the Church. (Mission of Life).

  3. 3. Practice Chastity - This choice will make me stronger morally. (Christian Life).

  4. 4. Become a Pro-Life Volunteer - This choice will use my talents positively. (Stewardship of Life).

  5. 5. Pray the Family Rosary - This choice will support my family. (Prayer for Life).

  6. 6. Pro-Life Action - This choice will develop good leadership. (Public Life, e.g.: March for Life, Life Chain).

  7. 7. Participation in Mass - This choice will have lasting desirable effects. (Christian Life).

  8. 8. Say NO to Drugs and Alcohol - This choice will influence others for the better. (Social Life).

  9. 9. Perpetual Adoration Commitment - This choice will bestow powerful results. (Sacrificial Life).

  10. 10. Join Students for Life - This choice will reflect good common sense. (Community Life).

 


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DID YOU KNOW….


 
International
PERPETUAL ROSARY FOR LIFE

 

“We can conquer ‘The Culture of Death’, and build a

‘culture of Life’, if we unite in dedicated prayer,

through our Blessed Mother Mary,

by proclaiming the Glory of God

throughout the entire world”

Fr. Jim Whalen


Prayer is our most powerful weapon against contraception, abortion, euthanasia,

and other attacks against the sanctity of human life. Join us,

and others throughout the world, through the power of the Holy Rosary,

to storm Heaven with prayers in defence of life from conception to natural death.

 



Please return this form to:

Priests for Life Canada
P.O. Box 43, Cumberland, ON  K4C 1E5

 
or E-mail this information to:
priests@priestsforlifecanada.com

 

To take part in the Perpetual Rosary for Life, please copy and paste this

form into your favorite e-mail program and send to priests@priestsforlifecanada.com

 

__ Please send me more information on praying the Perpetual Rosary for Life.
__ Yes, I can commit to praying the Perpetual Rosary for Life each day from: _________ to _________ (choose any 15-minute time period to pray 5 decades).
__ Yes, I can commit to praying the Perpetual Rosary for Life once a week on _________________ (day) from _________ to _________ (choose any 15-minute time period to say 5 decades).
__ Please add my name to the mailing list of Priests for Life Canada.

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THERE’S AN EASY WAY
TO START A STUDENTS’
PRO-LIFE GROUP
IN YOUR SCHOOL…


JUST DO IT!

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WITH TRUE
CONTRITION, JESUS
UNDERSTANDS, AND
JESUS FORGIVES.




 

 

PEER PRESSURE & PRO-LIFE
By Fr. Jim Whalen

 

Peer pressure is a powerful influence one experiences to conform to the standards of others, (friends) even if you don’t want to. It can be good or bad depending where your friends are coming from. Many young people are influenced by the peer group to use different methods of birth control: the pill, condoms, etc. None of these are 100% effective. They are as safe statistically as playing Russian Roulette. The only way to avoid risks is to not have intercourse, to practice chastity and abstinence, and to have pro-life values. This means following God’s instructions of waiting until marriage.

In the 1980s, the most powerful influences in a teenager’s life were:

1. peer group
2. parents
3. media

Today the media has usurped the place of parents’ influence. The reason peer pressure is so powerful is because every single person on earth has a God-given need to be loved and accepted.

The facts can help clarify the present dangers to young people who become sexually active and disregard the consequences. There are more than fifty-one sexually transmitted diseases. Two-and-one-half million teenagers will get one of these diseases in a period of one year. It only takes one contact - one time to catch a disease like herpes, gonorrhea or even AIDS. There are more school-aged young people that have gonorrhea than the combined cases of mumps, rubella, measles, and chicken pox. Why play with your life and future when you don’t have to?

The facts of drug abuse can help to clarify misconceptions as well. Statistics show that one out of four students, ages 13-17, are offered illegal drugs in a single month. (USA Today, 8/15/89) We are temples of God. Drug abuse does nothing positive, nothing pro-life for your body. The results alone of taking drugs should be enough to refuse peer pressure. The degrading effects of illicit drugs include addiction, impaired short memory, depression, anxiety, irritability, confusion, poor coordination, hepatitis and AIDS. Some overdoses can result in death - stimulants, heroin, designer drugs, etc. A person cannot claim to follow Christ and, at the same time, compromise pro-life values. One of the best ways to stay out of trouble is to avoid situations where you know you will be pressured to compromise. Young people must learn to live by their Christian convictions.

Peer pressure exists under two forms, negative and positive. If young people want to make a difference it means more than resisting negative pressure. It means exerting positive peer pressure. It only takes one person who will stand up for his beliefs in Jesus to make others wake up to the truth and to pro-life values. Dare to be different and take a firm stand for pro-life values,and be a follower of Jesus Christ, even if it means standing alone.

 

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ST. PHILOMENA -

THE PATRONESS OF YOUTH
www.saint-philomena.com and http://www.philomena.org


On May 25, 1802, excavators in the ancient Catacomb of Priscilla in Rome came upon a well-preserved shelf tomb sealed with terra-cotta slabs in the manner usually reserved for nobility or great martyrs. The tomb was marked with three tiles, inscribed with the following confusing words: LUMENA / PAXTE / CUMFI. However, if one places the first tile last and separates the words properly, the very intelligible sentence emerges: Pax tecum, Filumena, which is "Peace be with you, Philomena." Also inscribed on the tiles were symbols: a lily, arrows, an anchor and a lance, which would appear to indicate virginity and martyrdom. Inside the coffin there were discovered the remains of a girl of about twelve or thirteen years of age, along with a vial or ampulla of her dried blood.

We beseech Thee, O Lord, to grant us the pardon of our sins by the intercession of Saint Philomena, virgin and martyr, who was always pleasing in Thy sight by her eminent chastity and by the profession of every virtue. Amen.

 

  

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The Facts for Life
a publication by
Priests for Life, Canada
 P.O. Box 43, Cumberland, Ontario, K4C 1E5
Tel:(613) 732-3950   Fax: (613) 732-9196
E-mail: priests@priestsforlifecanada.com

Home Page: http://www.priestsforlifecanada.com

 NATIONAL DIRECTOR
Rev. Fr. James Whalen
Box 99, Cumberland, Ontario, K4C 1E5
Tel/fax (613) 833-3264

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